I’m sorry, but the handy-dandy gender-free quiz isn’t here anymore.
Moody Publishers decided that my quiz infringed on their copyright. Here is their entirely inadequate (to my audience, and in my opinion…) widget. Just know that it’s absolutely rife with heterosexual gender references and assumptions, and uses (over and over and OVER) the language “husband” or “wife” depending which gendered version you choose. Still, it’s useful to get a quick idea of your preference, so I’d rather link to it, than leave you without an option, here.